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#201 2012-01-30 19:23:40

kirsten
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Re: openness

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Eden wrote:

It's not a theory at all kirsten... it's a fact that women with a strong feminine sexual essence are sexually aroused by masculine energy.  sexual polarity is not a theory rather it is a law of nature that anyone can observe in themselves and in others. Nearly every body has this polarity to different degrees, though of course there are asexual humans who are essentially neutral.

Any lazy mind can go around claiming that what others are pointing out is 'theory'.  I could do it all day everyday...anyone can.  You don't have the energy to look into it, that is fine.  Most people don't.

i do get what you are pointing at, eden, but as soon as you try to put it into words it turns into a theory ready to be misunderstood and abused.

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#202 2012-01-30 20:19:06

night
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Re: openness

pearl wrote:

night wrote:

pearl wrote:

Now Eden thinks rape is love, jealousy is love, and when I say it is not, he is threatened, and reacts angrily, because he has been conditoned to think that violence is love, greed, competetion is love.  That happens when your heart and mind has never touched that thing called love.  It doesn't know what it means to love, not that you can "know it. It has never truly, wholly inquired into it's own heart and mind to begin with.

That's because you don't know the joys of friendly competition. Not unlike our good friend K. No worries though, to each its own - I am not too much into baking myself.

Night, you're just another jealous wimp, hope not.  Grow up and be a man.  Your sly manipulations, snide remarks don't work.

Think what you like. I have better things to do than correct your misconceptions. I guess that is the end of our conversations for now then. Good bye.

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#203 2012-01-30 21:44:27

Eden
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Re: openness

kirsten wrote:

i do get what you are pointing at, eden, but as soon as you try to put it into words it turns into a theory ready to be misunderstood and abused.

Some will understand, and some wont. If you withhold it from the one, you will withhold it from the other.

Besides, it will take quite a bit of effort and creativity to abuse what I am sharing...I am sure most abusers will find other material far more suitable and appealing.

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#204 2012-01-30 22:16:57

pearl
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Re: openness

night wrote:

pearl wrote:

night wrote:


That's because you don't know the joys of friendly competition. Not unlike our good friend K. No worries though, to each its own - I am not too much into baking myself.

Night, you're just another jealous wimp, hope not.  Grow up and be a man.  Your sly manipulations, snide remarks don't work.

Think what you like. I have better things to do than correct your misconceptions. I guess that is the end of our conversations for now then. Good bye.

Correct what? LOL!  You really got better things than doing what? (can't stop laughing)

Goodbye then.

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#205 2012-01-30 22:17:41

Eden
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Re: openness

night wrote:

pearl wrote:

Night, you're just another jealous wimp, hope not.  Grow up and be a man.  Your sly manipulations, snide remarks don't work.

Think what you like. I have better things to do than correct your misconceptions. I guess that is the end of our conversations for now then. Good bye.

Despite pearl's inability to feel my heart through the words, I still feel she is quite an incredible woman with an amazing heart and body and mind. A forum is not an easy screen to feel through.  I doubt any feminine body would respond well to a bunch of dudes hanging around a forum pointing out her contradictions or inconsistencies.  I'm fairly certain most any real woman would feel all that as some sort of violence or control or manipulation or just plain lameness.  In fact I've pretty much come to expect the full spectrum of labels

Clearly I've done a poor job of letting pearl know that her radiance is seen and felt, albeit from a distance.

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#206 2012-01-30 22:20:37

pearl
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Re: openness

Eden wrote:

kirsten wrote:

i do get what you are pointing at, eden, but as soon as you try to put it into words it turns into a theory ready to be misunderstood and abused.

Some will understand, and some wont. If you withhold it from the one, you will withhold it from the other.

Besides, it will take quite a bit of effort and creativity to abuse what I am sharing...I am sure most abusers will find other material far more suitable and appealing.

That's loaded, abusers, and abuse...what the heck are you and kirsten darling talking!?   It's ok eden, nobody is going to abuse you, or your contradictory phrases.  You say there is no such thing as violence, yet talk of there being abusers...umm.

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#207 2012-01-30 22:27:10

pearl
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Re: openness

Eden wrote:

night wrote:

pearl wrote:

Night, you're just another jealous wimp, hope not.  Grow up and be a man.  Your sly manipulations, snide remarks don't work.

Think what you like. I have better things to do than correct your misconceptions. I guess that is the end of our conversations for now then. Good bye.

Despite pearl's inability to feel my heart through the words, I still feel she is quite an incredible woman with an amazing heart and body and mind. A forum is not an easy screen to feel through.  I doubt any feminine body would respond well to a bunch of dudes hanging around a forum pointing out her contradictions or inconsistencies.  I'm fairly certain most any real woman would feel all that as some sort of violence or control or manipulation or just plain lameness.  In fact I've pretty much come to expect the full spectrum of labels

Clearly I've done a poor job of letting pearl know that her radiance is seen and felt, albeit from a distance.

There you go contradicting yourself again, but hey,be my guest, contradict as much as you like if it feels good.  Good night and much love to you and your's.

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#208 2012-01-30 22:55:17

Eden
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From: Hawaii
Registered: 2009-05-08
Posts: 5508

Re: openness

pearl wrote:

Eden wrote:

night wrote:


Think what you like. I have better things to do than correct your misconceptions. I guess that is the end of our conversations for now then. Good bye.

Despite pearl's inability to feel my heart through the words, I still feel she is quite an incredible woman with an amazing heart and body and mind. A forum is not an easy screen to feel through.  I doubt any feminine body would respond well to a bunch of dudes hanging around a forum pointing out her contradictions or inconsistencies.  I'm fairly certain most any real woman would feel all that as some sort of violence or control or manipulation or just plain lameness.  In fact I've pretty much come to expect the full spectrum of labels

Clearly I've done a poor job of letting pearl know that her radiance is seen and felt, albeit from a distance.

There you go contradicting yourself again, but hey,be my guest, contradict as much as you like if it feels good.  Good night and much love to you and your's.

And there you go, still unable to feel my heart. My heart never contradicts itself, so perhaps you could bypass my head if it is getting in your way ;-)

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#209 2012-01-31 04:25:32

kirsten
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Re: openness

maybe you misunderstood

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#210 2012-01-31 14:57:48

night
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From: California
Registered: 2010-11-21
Posts: 934

Re: openness

Eden wrote:

night wrote:

pearl wrote:

Night, you're just another jealous wimp, hope not.  Grow up and be a man.  Your sly manipulations, snide remarks don't work.

Think what you like. I have better things to do than correct your misconceptions. I guess that is the end of our conversations for now then. Good bye.

Despite pearl's inability to feel my heart through the words, I still feel she is quite an incredible woman with an amazing heart and body and mind. A forum is not an easy screen to feel through.  I doubt any feminine body would respond well to a bunch of dudes hanging around a forum pointing out her contradictions or inconsistencies.  I'm fairly certain most any real woman would feel all that as some sort of violence or control or manipulation or just plain lameness.  In fact I've pretty much come to expect the full spectrum of labels

Clearly I've done a poor job of letting pearl know that her radiance is seen and felt, albeit from a distance.

Yes, this forum is not for everyone. Not to worry, I am sure we can find a spot on this earth for our little wimpy violent manipulative controlling minds to connect ;-)

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#211 2012-01-31 17:48:36

Eden
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From: Hawaii
Registered: 2009-05-08
Posts: 5508

Re: openness

night wrote:

Not to worry, I am sure we can find a spot on this earth for our little wimpy violent manipulative controlling minds to connect ;-)

Yes, and perhaps you can be my follower and I can be yours, that way we can become a little self-sustaining leader/follower entity who doesn't need anyone else. Maybe we can even have a little commitment ceremony on the beach.

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