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joe wrote:
sds wrote:
joe wrote:
SDS, you found it cute and so you used it but you are not influenced, you think...wow. Why did you think it was cute when really it is just a derogatory use of language? Did you keep looking or just decided you used it consciously because you thought it was 'cute'?
Joe, I did read this and appreciate your tenacity in trying to get through to me. I already shared everything I can regarding this, it is all there. Lets just leave this now if that is okay. We did converse and share a little on this and I think there is only respect on my end for all of the participants on here. I truly only wish everyone well on here and truly respect each and every one of you. I might forget this at times, but it always comes back to this, I always return to this, and see this clearly, that each and every one of you are just human beings like me and deserve respect....
of course operating with respect is important. Do that and do not just blow off what happens here and it will be respect. Continue to parrot another without questioning what you are saying and be pulled around by their influence and it is disrespect. It is just that simple.
Here you do not want to talk about it anymore and to me that is only an indication you do not want to look anymore, as you only copied derogatory comments because that kind of 'violence' appealed to you and you thought it was 'cute'. I can understand that but am not up for putting rosey glasses on it.
Thanks for sharing more, Joe. I will look into this.....
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For whatever it is worth, I see Pearl differently than some of you on here. I only see a Beautiful, alive, insightful, wise, mature, passionate, inquiring woman. A woman who is alone and free and not influenced by anybody. And it is the most beautiful thing to see and witness.
Whatever she says has unbelievable depth and meaning to it. But most miss it and are not interested in looking at what she is pointing to. I on the other hand, take everything she says, even if I dont understand it at the time and stay with it and do not dismiss it, and almost always, later I see the truth to what she is saying.
This is just how I see her and just wanted to share my perceptions.
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sure brother you see as you see and so do i and everybody
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ok, thanks for sharing...that was already obvious though, sds, you only see what you want to see, not the whole picture. Sure pearl says some wise sounding things, she just wraps it up in bitters and expects others to eat it. Why wrap up such wisdom in bitters? Why label people endlessly? Surely there is no wisdom in that, sds.
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Joe, do you still like me, like SDS, even though he sees Pearl differently than you, even though he might post deragatory comments because he thought it was cute, even though he parrots others, etc? I wonder if it has changed at all......
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joe wrote:
ok, thanks for sharing...that was already obvious though, sds, you only see what you want to see, not the whole picture. Sure pearl says some wise sounding things, she just wraps it up in bitters and expects others to eat it. Why wrap up such wisdom in bitters? Why label people endlessly? Surely there is no wisdom in that, sds.
This is where we differ Joe. I see wisdom even in her put downs or bitters, if you want to call them that. There is wisdom in everything she does and says. But by no means am I a follower of hers or blindly accept anything she says. I just happen to see some truth in almost everything she says.
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why do you think I implore you to see this? Do you think I do it because I do not like you? Sds, it doesn't matter if it is myself, the neighbor, the person in the supermarket line or the people here, if I see someone buying a sack of flour with a hole in it I will point it out.
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kirsten wrote:
sure brother you see as you see and so do i and everybody
Yes, madam, so true, so true.
I was surprised to see that you copied and pasted what Pearl wrote to everyone and replaced her name with his. Very sneaky on your part.....
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joe wrote:
why do you think I implore you to see this? Do you think I do it because I do not like you? Sds, it doesn't matter if it is myself, the neighbor, the person in the supermarket line or the people here, if I see someone buying a sack of flour with a hole in it I will point it out.
I do look Joe at what you point out, to make sure I am not fooling myself, deceiving myself. So I do appreciate your caring and asking me to see, to look....
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and you find that to be sneaky ? hmm.. yes you see as you.. see
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kirsten wrote:
and you find that to be sneaky ? hmm.. yes you see as you.. see
Laughing I am. I just was surprised to see what you have done. I thought it sounded familiar and then I did a little research and found that post where Pearl said that to Everyone. So it was not your words, but hers, and now you directed them towards her. That was the part that was sneaky.
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sds wrote:
joe wrote:
ok, thanks for sharing...that was already obvious though, sds, you only see what you want to see, not the whole picture. Sure pearl says some wise sounding things, she just wraps it up in bitters and expects others to eat it. Why wrap up such wisdom in bitters? Why label people endlessly? Surely there is no wisdom in that, sds.
This is where we differ Joe. I see wisdom even in her put downs or bitters, if you want to call them that. There is wisdom in everything she does and says. But by no means am I a follower of hers or blindly accept anything she says. I just happen to see some truth in almost everything she says.
yes, I know you see that but as was just pointed out you are following violence and derogatory comments because it appeals to you somehow. Is that what you wish to continue doing? Is it that much of a rush to watch her slander nearly everyone (yourself included plenty of times) that you can not break from the teat? To say she does not influence you but you agree with nearly everything she says is a sign of self-loathing and I do wish you would not attract abusive type relationships any longer.
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open your eyes and you may see this happens more than you see now
(responding to sds' post #63)
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sds wrote:
kirsten wrote:
and you find that to be sneaky ? hmm.. yes you see as you.. see
Laughing I am. I just was surprised to see what you have done. I thought it sounded familiar and then I did a little research and found that post where Pearl said that to Everyone. So it was not your words, but hers, and now you directed them towards her. That was the part that was sneaky.
ok, now it makes sense to me too...I was worried about you Kirsten you sounded just like pearl.
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kirsten wrote:
open your eyes and you may see this happens more than you see now
Okay, I will.....
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joe wrote:
sds wrote:
kirsten wrote:
and you find that to be sneaky ? hmm.. yes you see as you.. see
Laughing I am. I just was surprised to see what you have done. I thought it sounded familiar and then I did a little research and found that post where Pearl said that to Everyone. So it was not your words, but hers, and now you directed them towards her. That was the part that was sneaky.
ok, now it makes sense to me too...I was worried about you Kirsten you sounded just like pearl.
Laughing. See Kirsten, you were indeed being sneaky......
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joe wrote:
sds wrote:
joe wrote:
ok, thanks for sharing...that was already obvious though, sds, you only see what you want to see, not the whole picture. Sure pearl says some wise sounding things, she just wraps it up in bitters and expects others to eat it. Why wrap up such wisdom in bitters? Why label people endlessly? Surely there is no wisdom in that, sds.
This is where we differ Joe. I see wisdom even in her put downs or bitters, if you want to call them that. There is wisdom in everything she does and says. But by no means am I a follower of hers or blindly accept anything she says. I just happen to see some truth in almost everything she says.
yes, I know you see that but as was just pointed out you are following violence and derogatory comments because it appeals to you somehow. Is that what you wish to continue doing? Is it that much of a rush to watch her slander nearly everyone (yourself included plenty of times) that you can not break from the teat? To say she does not influence you but you agree with nearly everything she says is a sign of self-loathing and I do wish you would not attract abusive type relationships any longer.
I follow you somewhat and then you jump off to assumptions and conclusions that are just not true.
I am violent as all human beings are violent. I am derogatory at times as all human beings are derogatory at times. Yes, it appeals to my ego, to my lower nature if you will. I do not wish to continue doing it, but I am human as I say and powerless at times to resist it.
I am okay with Pearl talking bitter with me, as you say, she has done that with me too plenty of times. I usually react in anger and act childish, but when I look back, she is usually right in what she wrote to me.
The part where you make assumptions is when you rush and jump to the conclusion that just because I agree with most of what she says means that I am influenced by her and that I am self loathing, etc.
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but maybe when you look back ...
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joe wrote:
yeah you are right, those are assumptions, well spotted. Withdrawn.
Thanks Joe, my friend, nice talking with you. Off to eat some dinner. Have a nice evening. Much love and respect for you....
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joe wrote:
the self loathing is an assumption, the influence is obvious, just for clarity.
Oh no, little bro, dont say such things, such blasphemy... LOL
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joe wrote:
pearl wrote:
joe wrote:
I like sds, sam. Ok, no point talking to you today obviously. All you can do is label and divide people one from the other, it seems.
You like? What is it you like? Firstly, you need to learn what it means to communicate with another, with real respect, real affection, then you don't need to be saying, "I like, I love" and so on. But for now, your heart and mind is without love, without beauty and from there you say, "I like, I love" which are but divisive lies you tell yourself and others. If you truly had love, affection in your heart your actions would be completely different.
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goes the sheep....
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sds wrote:
Joe, I looked to see if you were right, if I was indeed vulnerable in regards to Pearl. I looked to see if I was indeed influenced by her, I looked to see why I used her terminology.
In regards to all you pointed out, I have consciously done all and have not been influenced or was vulnerable to Pearls charms or weaving of webs in any, per your analogy....
But that you are 'under my influence'(what ever he means by that) is what joe likes to think, so he can avoid looking at himself as he is, even though he pretends a great deal that he is looking...he's just playing his tricks as usual trying to get you to do and say things like him...in other words, control, not aware that he is infact the controllee, and the controlled.
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