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#1 2012-05-07 13:05:38

dhirendra
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Feelings

What is life without feelings? Feeling of indescribable affection to children, feeling of love to some person, feeling beauty of flowers in garden...
Are these feeling something real or something else?
Don't know, but I don't avoid the feelings, they seem so strong and live.

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#2 2012-05-07 13:31:00

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Re: Feelings

Seams I learned here from Yayaraj, we have THE feeling, er sense and them we build THE though...
And I also has learned, is good or bad we can not stick on feelings, because they Will nemer remain forever, they are changeble in à less them second, hum, better whatch this feelings, accept, and let go...avoide is impossible and not health, we fell but ewe do not jump on them, because fell as à présence with all THE body is health, but to start to fell with THE mind, is like give food for all identfication ismpassing by, so and I presume, At least I ca. talk from my self, be free of feeling, or whatch they come and go, is very fun and left us with no ex expectation.
I hope this can be use usefull for you my Dear,
Love
Ekanta

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#3 2012-05-07 13:41:23

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Re: Feelings

Hi Dhirendra, good to read ya.  Totally understand what you're shairng here.  Did your heart ever bubble up with this unconditional love for anything, anyone?  Mine just did.  I was just walking out of a farmers market enjoying the sunny day and suddenly someone touched my back slightly and I turned around to see this amazing, super cool person of a friend who just gave me a wonderful hug, and completely took my breath away with.  what an incredible hug and totally unexpected, and my whole being must have lit up in his arms for a moment...wow!  And then as we parted and I walked back home this great affection started bubbling up for his being, for/with life itself.  I'm still going wow, as you can see.

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#4 2012-05-07 13:57:59

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Re: Feelings

Ekanta wrote:

Seams I learned here from Yayaraj, we have THE feeling, er sense and them we build THE though...
And I also has learned, is good or bad we can not stick on feelings, because they Will nemer remain forever, they are changeble in à less them second, hum, better whatch this feelings, accept, and let go...avoide is impossible and not health, we fell but ewe do not jump on them, because fell as à présence with all THE body is health, but to start to fell with THE mind, is like give food for all identfication ismpassing by, so and I presume, At least I ca. talk from my self, be free of feeling, or whatch they come and go, is very fun and left us with no ex expectation.
I hope this can be use usefull for you my Dear,
Love
Ekanta

I aam directing more this comments regarding to fell good or bad...we can be Beyoncé That... With clarity That on THE senses are signal to THE mind and THE mind respondmto them relating to THE feeling...
So I wish you all THE best senses and discovers, keep more THE lovely onesthetisch, THE rest out...butmeven THE good one, are so momentaneaum, than is to stay im completly State of Present time...
We learn my Dear,
Love to you
Ekanta

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#5 2012-05-07 14:33:27

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Re: Feelings

Dhirendra, those hugs are insanely warm the way he hugs me with the whole of his being and then lets you go as swiftly as though he never did hug me to begin with, completely out of this world, super comforting, super loving, and light.  What a great hugger, and I fit so well in his arms like a hand in a glove as though it were my home.  Like I told you, completely insane and trust me something like this is very rare to me esp with a male.  Anyways, sorry to go about it.  But, it sure made my day today.

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#6 2012-05-07 14:41:54

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Re: Feelings

And the nice thing is that he is the exact same age as as mine, 38.  That's kinda cool cos I love being able to relate and share with people of my own age.  But he seems more mature and very mellow unlike anyone I've ever met, always calm and a mystery to fathom.

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#7 2012-05-07 14:52:10

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Re: Feelings

Now, don't get it wrong, we're just good friends and share a great sense of compatibility, but if anything more happens like say when he (or me) proposes I'll let you know...:-)

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#8 2012-05-07 15:26:26

dhirendra
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Re: Feelings

Hi Sam :-)
Nice to hear from you too.
Yes, I feel that irresistible love.It's simple, if I don't complicate it with reasons and explanations.
Thank you for sharing your feelings.I wonder if that guy is not in euphoria after this hug.:-)
Well take care.

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#9 2012-05-07 15:51:12

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Re: Feelings

dhirendra wrote:

Hi Sam :-)
Nice to hear from you too.

Same here, good to see you posting on this forum as well.

dhirendra wrote:

Yes, I feel that irresistible love.It's simple, if I don't complicate it with reasons and explanations.

So totally true what you say here, and I see so too.  So simple when you don't complicate it.

dhirendra wrote:

Thank you for sharing your feelings.I wonder if that guy is not in euphoria after this hug.:-)

LOL!  That's the cutest thing to say and there's something very magical about it when he just comes out of the blue almost leaps and hugs me and wraps me in his arms.  I've never felt such warmth ever esp from a male, in years.  I mean it completely blows my mind away and leaves me speechless.  So intense, so powerful, compelling and yet so fearless and innocent.


dhirendra wrote:

Well take care.

Thank you, and you too take great care.  Namaste.

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#10 2012-05-07 22:55:11

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Re: Feelings

Hi Direndra, very nice to hear from you after some time. Will get back.

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#11 2012-05-08 08:29:57

dhirendra
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Re: Feelings

Hi Jayaraj, thank you.

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#12 2012-05-08 08:51:20

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Re: Feelings

pearl wrote:

Well take care.
... there's something very magical about it when he just comes out of the blue almost leaps and hugs me and wraps me in his arms.  I've never felt such warmth ever esp from a male, in years.  I mean it completely blows my mind away and leaves me speechless.  So intense, so powerful, compelling and yet so fearless and innocent.

After reading this, Sam, I am thinking to hug someone, though in India everyone is not allowed to hug anyone, but it worth to take a risk.

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#13 2012-05-08 19:15:17

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Re: Feelings

Well, talking about hugging Direndra once read a news paper article by a certain lady about differeces between your pet dog & your husband. Among many she had listed that pet dogs you can be bathed anytime!-so I would advice you to take a bath before you venture out for your new exercise!smile

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#14 2012-05-08 19:44:13

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Re: Feelings

dhirendra wrote:

pearl wrote:

Well take care.
... there's something very magical about it when he just comes out of the blue almost leaps and hugs me and wraps me in his arms.  I've never felt such warmth ever esp from a male, in years.  I mean it completely blows my mind away and leaves me speechless.  So intense, so powerful, compelling and yet so fearless and innocent.

After reading this, Sam, I am thinking to hug someone, though in India everyone is not allowed to hug anyone, but it worth to take a risk.

Aren't the indians a bunch a hypocritic folks?  They make the most babies next to the chinese and and yet ashamed of any public display of affection.  My advice would be to hug someone you already know and are close to even if it's a new person in your life, or else you could be slapped and called the cops on, and what not. lol.  But everything is an art, even hugging.

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#15 2012-05-08 19:49:11

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Re: Feelings

dhirendra wrote:

Hi Jayaraj, thank you.

Hi, how are you?
I am coming to India, I loved, and I got so many hugs.
I am going to Adhiar also, Madras.
Love
Ekanta

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#16 2012-05-08 19:50:31

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Re: Feelings

Coming back to the point of your post, dhirendra, something comes to be added, that what mostly goes for feelings are actually distorted feelings.  The feelings of people are distorted, limited but krishnamurti talked about feelings that importance and or lack of complete and vital feelings and how mosttly are suppressed due to cultural, religious conditionings.  They are quickly denied, suppressed, condemned and or exaggerated like in the movies and dramas, and seldom stayed with and allowed to flower fully.  Don't ya think so?

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#17 2012-05-08 20:53:46

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Re: Feelings

Ekanta if I may ask what are you running away from dear?  You seem to be escaping from facing your fears and loosing yourself in traveling, in all the outside drama.  But one day or the other no matter how far away you try to run away from yourself, escape, you would have no choice but to face your fears, i.e. to move inwards which is more important and vital than all these world traveling, etc.  But thus far you seem content to stay on the surface of things, I wonder why so?

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#18 2012-05-08 21:11:43

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Re: Feelings

pearl wrote:

But thus far you seem content to stay on the surface of things, I wonder why so?

You really wonder?

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#19 2012-05-08 21:45:03

Ekanta
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Re: Feelings

pearl wrote:

Ekanta if I may ask what are you running away from dear?  You seem to be escaping from facing your fears and loosing yourself in traveling, in all the outside drama.  But one day or the other no matter how far away you try to run away from yourself, escape, you would have no choice but to face your fears, i.e. to move inwards which is more important and vital than all these world traveling, etc.  But thus far you seem content to stay on the surface of things, I wonder why so?

Dear, take care of your life
Now I am traveling...and that is it, I am working also...
So stop doing this,
For me you are sick, you are always saying terrible thinks to the people
So grow up, I am not after you, you will never fou d any post of me...saying what ypu doing is good or not,
You are like a Devo mind, diabolic...so stoped
I travel as ,uch as I want...so stop your sick mind, you being sending me strange messages also,
Take care of ypur life and live me alone
You never travel? So let me bee...ok

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#20 2012-05-08 21:46:53

Ekanta
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Re: Feelings

Ekanta wrote:

pearl wrote:

Ekanta if I may ask what are you running away from dear?  You seem to be escaping from facing your fears and loosing yourself in traveling, in all the outside drama.  But one day or the other no matter how far away you try to run away from yourself, escape, you would have no choice but to face your fears, i.e. to move inwards which is more important and vital than all these world traveling, etc.  But thus far you seem content to stay on the surface of things, I wonder why so?

Dear, take care of your life
Now I am traveling...and that is it, I am working also...
So stop doing this,
For me you are sick, you are always saying terrible thinks to the people
So grow up, I am not after you, you will never fou d any post of me...saying what ypu doing is good or not,
You are like a Devo mind, diabolic...so stoped
I travel as ,uch as I want...so stop your sick mind, you being sending me strange messages also,
Take care of ypur life and live me alone
You never travel? So let me bee...ok

Crazy Jelouse woman...
Gonna found your self...
Live me alone, crazy one....

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#21 2012-05-08 21:48:02

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Re: Feelings

Ekanta wrote:

So grow up, I am not after you, you will never fou d any post of me...saying what ypu doing is good or not,

Yep, not a single post anywhere to be found.

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#22 2012-05-08 21:49:38

Ekanta
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Re: Feelings

pearl wrote:

Ekanta if I may ask what are you running away from dear?  You seem to be escaping from facing your fears and loosing yourself in traveling, in all the outside drama.  But one day or the other no matter how far away you try to run away from yourself, escape, you would have no choice but to face your fears, i.e. to move inwards which is more important and vital than all these world traveling, etc.  But thus far you seem content to stay on the surface of things, I wonder why so?

You do not acuse people of this of that, you know nothing about me, and you are always so cruel and your comments to me, so you are like a idiot machine...
So please point your gan to other direction...
I am tired of that, of your jelouse, of ypur insinuations
Gonna created some think good
My life is not your busenesss

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#23 2012-05-08 21:51:20

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Re: Feelings

Sorry but this drama is part of your life and this is what I'm pointing to, a total lack of passion to inquire deeply into anything and then you dump words like love, and this and that at get go.  But, I'd say it's time for you to grow up and show some maturity, stop acting like a teenager, throwing temper tantrums.

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#24 2012-05-08 21:54:41

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Re: Feelings

Ekanta wrote:

pearl wrote:

Ekanta if I may ask what are you running away from dear?  You seem to be escaping from facing your fears and loosing yourself in traveling, in all the outside drama.  But one day or the other no matter how far away you try to run away from yourself, escape, you would have no choice but to face your fears, i.e. to move inwards which is more important and vital than all these world traveling, etc.  But thus far you seem content to stay on the surface of things, I wonder why so?

You do not acuse people of this of that, you know nothing about me, and you are always so cruel and your comments to me, so you are like a idiot machine...
So please point your gan to other direction...
I am tired of that, of your jelouse, of ypur insinuations
Gonna created some think good
My life is not your busenesss

If you want not to be distubed and think you can get away with all the silly rubbish you post then stick to myspace and facebook.  Clearly you're a disturbed mind and quiet volatile at that and that makes you sick, not pearl.

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#25 2012-05-08 21:55:55

Ekanta
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Re: Feelings

pearl wrote:

Sorry but this drama is part of your life and this is what I'm pointing to, a total lack of passion to inquire deeply into anything and then you dump words like love, and this and that at get go.  But, I'd say it's time for you to grow up and show some maturity, stop acting like a teenager, throwing temper tantrums.

I am telling you, ypur crazy sick woman, live me alone
So, what you worry about?
Go to the he'll and found ypur self
Stop this please
Stop to think that people are wrong and  you are right
As I sad, I never write here nothing regarding your life, what are you doing or not doing
So, this is not my business, so I will never do that
But you always such in ypur comments related to me
So go to the he'll and take care of your life

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