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bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
Free all you want, but where's the relationship? Between what and what?You don't know?
who cares about relationship? There is none. It is a different thing. The free has no relation.Then why are you bringing it up?! To me, it means very little, because it is one way.
Ah no, without relationship, in isolation, there is no learning. The trouble is, when you are free, relationship is also free.
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
Do you want me to tell you if I'm free?
I've said it many a time, who has ears to hear, they will.
To#42.Then no one can force you to do any mission. Do it freely.
What are you talking about?! Who said anything about forcing another?
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snguyen wrote:
Ekanta wrote:
snguyen wrote:
Yes, life is the teacher. Human race is the teacher. Relationship is a teacher.Yes, we learn all the time, and become so beautifull...some time is painfull, but after we learn to not identify much and we are in a better space, calmness
If you lead a peaceful life, peace be with you.
Yes, in the end can be just simple as you mention
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
You don't know?
who cares about relationship? There is none. It is a different thing. The free has no relation.Then why are you bringing it up?! To me, it means very little, because it is one way.
Ah no, without relationship, in isolation, there is no learning. The trouble is, when you are free, relationship is also free.
There is no learning if one is not free, so to speak: only 'after'. But relationship doesn't exist, at any stage.
You are talking about something else: learning from a LACK OF RELATIONSHIP-that's the actual fact: the mirror of a lack of relationship.
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bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
Do you want me to tell you if I'm free?
I've said it many a time, who has ears to hear, they will.
To#42.Then no one can force you to do any mission. Do it freely.
What are you talking about?! Who said anything about forcing another?
OK, when you don't know you are doing, you just do, without pretension. The rain does not ask why it rains.
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Ekanta wrote:
snguyen wrote:
Ekanta wrote:
Yes, we learn all the time, and become so beautifull...some time is painfull, but after we learn to not identify much and we are in a better space, calmness
If you lead a peaceful life, peace be with you.
Yes, in the end can be just simple as you mention
It can, theoretically.
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bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
Then why are you bringing it up?! To me, it means very little, because it is one way.Ah no, without relationship, in isolation, there is no learning. The trouble is, when you are free, relationship is also free.
There is no learning if one is not free, so to speak: only 'after'. But relationship doesn't exist, at any stage.
You are talking about something else: learning from a LACK OF RELATIONSHIP-that's the actual fact: the mirror of a lack of relationship.
Haha.
What is relationship between you and me? What do you say?
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
Then no one can force you to do any mission. Do it freely.What are you talking about?! Who said anything about forcing another?
OK, when you don't know you are doing, you just do, without pretension. The rain does not ask why it rains.
Who's forcing whom? You didn't answer that.
Who's pretending what? You asked a question, which was answered, that is not pretention. But because another answer was expected, you called it pretension. In fact, I wrote a different answer at first, then deleted it: it would've been pretension to say this mind doesn't ask that question, and the only thing it knows is that is not 'not-free'.
Because freedom exists, why pretend it doesn't?
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Ekanta wrote:
Confusion is the first state to put the house in order
But who is to put the house in order?
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
Ah no, without relationship, in isolation, there is no learning. The trouble is, when you are free, relationship is also free.There is no learning if one is not free, so to speak: only 'after'. But relationship doesn't exist, at any stage.
You are talking about something else: learning from a LACK OF RELATIONSHIP-that's the actual fact: the mirror of a lack of relationship.Haha.
What is relationship between you and me? What do you say?
I cannot stop and evaluate this: this is not a chess position! It is a moving thing, we can only relate or not relate-only life will tell.
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bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
What are you talking about?! Who said anything about forcing another?OK, when you don't know you are doing, you just do, without pretension. The rain does not ask why it rains.
Who's forcing whom? You didn't answer that.
Who's pretending what? You asked a question, which was answered, that is not pretention. But because another answer was expected, you called it pretension. In fact, I wrote a different answer at first, then deleted it: it would've been pretension to say this mind doesn't ask that question, and the only thing it knows is that is not 'not-free'.
Because freedom exists, why pretend it doesn't?
Not at all. Not at all. One is not concerned at all if whatever one is doing is right, without looking back, without carrying along. It is just right. That is free.
So, are we free from all those, and have a no direction conversation?
You said in total freedom from begining, there is new learning, is it right?
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bruce sean wrote:
I cannot stop and evaluate this: this is not a chess position! It is a moving thing, we can only relate or not relate-only life will tell.
There is no bondage in any way. Yeah. And that is really living. The ease of living together.
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
OK, when you don't know you are doing, you just do, without pretension. The rain does not ask why it rains.Who's forcing whom? You didn't answer that.
Who's pretending what? You asked a question, which was answered, that is not pretention. But because another answer was expected, you called it pretension. In fact, I wrote a different answer at first, then deleted it: it would've been pretension to say this mind doesn't ask that question, and the only thing it knows is that is not 'not-free'.
Because freedom exists, why pretend it doesn't?Not at all. Not at all. One is not concerned at all if whatever one is doing is right, without looking back, without carrying along. It is just right. That is free.
So, are we free from all those, and have a no direction conversation?
You said in total freedom from begining, there is new learning, is it right?
A conversation without direction? I don't know about that: the danger is that it could degenerate in non-sense.
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
I cannot stop and evaluate this: this is not a chess position! It is a moving thing, we can only relate or not relate-only life will tell.
There is no bondage in any way. Yeah. And that is really living. The ease of living together.
Tell that to your wife...! Don't take it personally, please.
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bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
Who's forcing whom? You didn't answer that.
Who's pretending what? You asked a question, which was answered, that is not pretention. But because another answer was expected, you called it pretension. In fact, I wrote a different answer at first, then deleted it: it would've been pretension to say this mind doesn't ask that question, and the only thing it knows is that is not 'not-free'.
Because freedom exists, why pretend it doesn't?Not at all. Not at all. One is not concerned at all if whatever one is doing is right, without looking back, without carrying along. It is just right. That is free.
So, are we free from all those, and have a no direction conversation?
You said in total freedom from begining, there is new learning, is it right?A conversation without direction? I don't know about that: the danger is that it could degenerate in non-sense.
It is not degeneratable, why do you anticipate so?
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bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
I cannot stop and evaluate this: this is not a chess position! It is a moving thing, we can only relate or not relate-only life will tell.
There is no bondage in any way. Yeah. And that is really living. The ease of living together.
Tell that to your wife...! Don't take it personally, please.
She does not like it. I've told her many times.
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bruce sean wrote:
Ekanta wrote:
Confusion is the first state to put the house in order
But who is to put the house in order?
Ekanta, observing and ordering the house
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Ekanta wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
Ekanta wrote:
Confusion is the first state to put the house in order
But who is to put the house in order?
Ekanta, observing and ordering the house
Hahaha! wise answer!
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Is Ekanta different from the confusion she's trying to correct? To# 69.
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snguyen wrote:
Ekanta wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
But who is to put the house in order?Ekanta, observing and ordering the house
Hahaha! wise answer!
The question still stands.
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
OK, when you don't know you are doing, you just do, without pretension. The rain does not ask why it rains.Who's forcing whom? You didn't answer that.
Who's pretending what? You asked a question, which was answered, that is not pretention. But because another answer was expected, you called it pretension. In fact, I wrote a different answer at first, then deleted it: it would've been pretension to say this mind doesn't ask that question, and the only thing it knows is that is not 'not-free'.
Because freedom exists, why pretend it doesn't?Not at all. Not at all. One is not concerned at all if whatever one is doing is right, without looking back, without carrying along. It is just right. That is free.
So, are we free from all those, and have a no direction conversation?
You said in total freedom from begining, there is new learning, is it right?
Yes, a total freedom a new learning
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snguyen wrote:
bruce sean wrote:
snguyen wrote:
There is no bondage in any way. Yeah. And that is really living. The ease of living together.
Tell that to your wife...! Don't take it personally, please.
She does not like it. I've told her many times.
I meant it's not easy for her, this living together thing.
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all right. time is up for a walk. You see bruce, if you talk with me and we find no problems, then where does the talk go? It goes outside for a walk of enjoyment. Without problems, where are we?
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