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#1 2012-02-24 14:15:09

RJ
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You cannot go to it

It must come to you

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#2 2012-02-24 14:49:34

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Re: You cannot go to it

http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRxSJopRR999OHRTc5aDPMpwPt0x1ijQRcAgzE5yyn__rKXCYc4

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#3 2012-02-24 15:27:30

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Re: You cannot go to it

Open all your windows, not your neighbor's.

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#4 2012-02-24 15:31:06

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Re: You cannot go to it

yes,

close the windows
shut the doors
dim the light

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#5 2012-02-24 15:36:19

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Re: You cannot go to it

I think Eden might like this openness and closure ;-)

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#6 2012-02-24 15:47:40

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Re: You cannot go to it

Eden would probably rag on me if he was online right now,
the idea that 'you cannot go to it' is anathema to him, committed as he is, to the going.

fanaticism abounds in our world, (Islam a particular magnet for its intensity)
and who, understanding the motives, could lay blame
do we think less of the fish who struggles against the hook and line until it is so exhausted that death becomes preferable, welcome?

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#7 2012-02-24 15:49:28

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Re: You cannot go to it

"Go to that place to which you go in order to answer yes to the question 'am I present'. Go to that place, without taking thought. What do you find there, other than...being and awareness? See, in fact, that our most intimate, most obvious, simple knowing, of our being, knows nothing other than its own presence. It has no knowlegde of any limit or location.

Without recourse to thinking, this presence of awareness that we intimately know ourselves to be cannot be disturbed, therefore it is sometimes known as peace; it knows no sense of lack and is therefore sometimes known as happiness; and it knows no sense of other and is sometimes therefore known as love. It is the most simple, the most obvious, and the most ordinary thing we know."

(by R.Spira)

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#8 2012-02-24 15:52:47

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Re: You cannot go to it

and sry about the going in the quote, but it is so beautiful methinks

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#9 2012-02-24 15:58:25

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Re: You cannot go to it

methinks so too

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#10 2012-02-27 17:12:11

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Re: You cannot go to it

See RJ, when you say truth must come to you, everybody leaves lazily.
It was also said that the truth was immensely high and you must make all efforts and struggles to come to it. It cannot bend down to you.

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#11 2012-02-27 17:17:42

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Re: You cannot go to it

http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTFvQF8eWItVsCe9zmWadD1wiOevkfZb7o4UZuBJL6Fdo1q0yyk-A

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#12 2012-02-27 17:23:12

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Re: You cannot go to it

snguyen wrote:

See RJ, when you say truth must come to you, everybody leaves lazily.
It was also said that the truth was immensely high and you must make all efforts and struggles to come to it. It cannot bend down to you.

I like this line

"everybody leaves lazily"

it is much better than

'everyone left in a hurry' or
'everybody just stayed and wouldn't leave"


so which is it my sagacious fellow? you must make all efforts and struggles or you can't go to it and it must come to you?

pick a side (or make like a non-dualist and shrink your powers of deduction down to the point where you simply stop bothering thus soon find yourself looking at inanimate objects with a weird sense of envy tinged with regret)

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#13 2012-02-27 17:40:43

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Re: You cannot go to it

If the problem has to do with identity, and I think it is, then the only doing that should be of importance is the one of identification.

If such is the case, and I think it is, then the question of going to it or letting it come to you has already closed the question of identity.

If such is the case, and I think it is, then let's debate how many angles a point will allow.

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#14 2012-02-27 18:02:14

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Re: You cannot go to it

RJ wrote:

snguyen wrote:

See RJ, when you say truth must come to you, everybody leaves lazily.
It was also said that the truth was immensely high and you must make all efforts and struggles to come to it. It cannot bend down to you.

I like this line

"everybody leaves lazily"

it is much better than

'everyone left in a hurry' or
'everybody just stayed and wouldn't leave"


so which is it my sagacious fellow? you must make all efforts and struggles or you can't go to it and it must come to you?

pick a side (or make like a non-dualist and shrink your powers of deduction down to the point where you simply stop bothering thus soon find yourself looking at inanimate objects with a weird sense of envy tinged with regret)

Today is my fun day brother.

I used to get so frustrated at K when he laughed happily himself during his discussion or left it half concluded for what I was searching for.

Several times I cursed at him disgustingly when I found out myself that I was tricked and betrayed by him.

Now I understand it was never his fault. Like I never try to be bad to you. When I am serious  I am an asshole. When I am happy, I am one too. Shadow boxing, yeah, I like your rich english though lazy enough to turn to a dictionary.

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#15 2012-02-27 18:10:05

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Re: You cannot go to it

wilbro99 wrote:

If the problem has to do with identity, and I think it is, then the only doing that should be of importance is the one of identification.

If such is the case, and I think it is, then the question of going to it or letting it come to you has already closed the question of identity.

If such is the case, and I think it is, then let's debate how many angles a point will allow.

you left out the capital i in the It me old salt.
you're 'lacking that gene' remember

I did briefly try to get you to consider another angle
i.e. what came before the big bang, something, anything, to shake up the certainty

but you can take a horse to water but just try taking him to a car-wash...

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#16 2012-02-27 18:20:38

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Re: You cannot go to it

RJ wrote:

so which is it my sagacious fellow? you must make all efforts and struggles or you can't go to it and it must come to you?

How about this good brother,

"you must make all efforts and struggles" to die to everything you know for "you can't go to it" carrying any single thing. Leave your windows open unconsciously and MAYBE it comes to you.

In the meantime you live happily ))))

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#17 2012-02-27 19:37:20

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Re: You cannot go to it

Hi RJ, I see your humor setting is high.

In the same vein, I shall look at the angle of a cause/effect in which only the effect is known.

What came before the big bang? I see your question here not as a question, but a point, both in the sense of the pointing and the pointed at; a universal gesture, if you will.

The question between us has always been one of identity. You conclude an identity I do not conclude.

Let me turn the question around. When It comes to you, are you changed? If you were changed, then the cause and effect is given. If, in coming to you, It did not introduce itself to you, are you changed, wherein is the cause?

Is not the change the change, and why then is it necessary to know that Cause, or if there is a cause, if the change is the change? Is it not the practice that counts, and not the hymns?

While I am at it, let me correct a record. You signed off one post with RJ spelt out. I looked up the name in NZ and came up with a vicar of that name, so that is what I was asking in the question about the cloth; the subject being theism.

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#18 2012-02-27 20:56:12

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Re: You cannot go to it

wilbro99 wrote:

Hi RJ, I see your humor setting is high.

In the same vein, I shall look at the angle of a cause/effect in which only the effect is known.

What came before the big bang? I see your question here not as a question, but a point, both in the sense of the pointing and the pointed at; a universal gesture, if you will.

The question between us has always been one of identity. You conclude an identity I do not conclude.

Let me turn the question around. When It comes to you, are you changed? If you were changed, then the cause and effect is given. If, in coming to you, It did not introduce itself to you, are you changed, wherein is the cause?

Is not the change the change, and why then is it necessary to know that Cause, or if there is a cause, if the change is the change? Is it not the practice that counts, and not the hymns?

While I am at it, let me correct a record. You signed off one post with RJ spelt out. I looked up the name in NZ and came up with a vicar of that name, so that is what I was asking in the question about the cloth; the subject being theism.

thank you for the heads up re the identity thieving Vicar. I shall contact Ekanta's lawyers immediately after I go to the dry cleaners to press my suit.

When It comes to you, are you changed?

Yeah man, I was 17, had declared myself an atheist since I was 12 (parents v. big in the Catholic church so wasn't easy but I always was a headstrong little monkey) and was not expecting the big It to come to me, not at all.
As changed as a ticket-collectors money bag I wuz.

Wuz I? I wuz.

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#19 2012-02-27 20:59:38

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Re: You cannot go to it

snguyen wrote:

RJ wrote:

so which is it my sagacious fellow? you must make all efforts and struggles or you can't go to it and it must come to you?

How about this good brother,

"you must make all efforts and struggles" to die to everything you know for "you can't go to it" carrying any single thing. Leave your windows open unconsciously and MAYBE it comes to you.

In the meantime you live happily ))))

yes
Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut!

whilst you are making all those efforts and struggles to die to everything you know so you aren't carrying one single thing...

aren't you really just trying to go to it? (however it might look like a retreating action)

you could in fact say that all of that is the exact opposite of

'choiceless awareness'

for example

seem to have picked that phrase up somwhere, can't put my finger on it right now,
does it sound familiar?

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#20 2012-02-27 21:51:50

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Re: You cannot go to it

And that is our difference; what I call context. The big It came to you and you changed. I saw that I was not what I thought I was and I changed. What came to me was the insight. You felt something and I saw something.

Is that a difference that cannot be bridged? One experiences a meeting and the other a discontinuity. Is that difference expressed by saying that it is the meeting of presence that creates the change, or is it the change that reveals presence?

I suspect the question boils down to where presence is located; is it an absolute other or is it everywhere and nowhere?

Perhaps you and I meet back to back, so to speak; the two faces of catharsis? The Apolline and the Dionysian? Maybe it has to do with whether that first step was positive or negative, gain or loss.

Just thinking…

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#21 2012-02-28 00:15:45

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Re: You cannot go to it

RJ wrote:

snguyen wrote:

RJ wrote:

so which is it my sagacious fellow? you must make all efforts and struggles or you can't go to it and it must come to you?

How about this good brother,

"you must make all efforts and struggles" to die to everything you know for "you can't go to it" carrying any single thing. Leave your windows open unconsciously and MAYBE it comes to you.

In the meantime you live happily ))))

yes
Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut!

whilst you are making all those efforts and struggles to die to everything you know so you aren't carrying one single thing...

aren't you really just trying to go to it? (however it might look like a retreating action)

you could in fact say that all of that is the exact opposite of

'choiceless awareness'

for example

seem to have picked that phrase up somwhere, can't put my finger on it right now,
does it sound familiar?

You got it. You got it. Now you can teach me some. It is so easy. And we got to go out and play. No time for boring stuff all life long. smile

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#22 2012-02-28 00:47:18

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Re: You cannot go to it

RJ wrote:

It must come to you

snguyen wrote:

Open all your windows, not your neighbor's.

RJ wrote:

yes,

close the windows
shut the doors
dim the light

If you want to be exactly, my friends.

‘You cannot invite the wind, but you can open your window’

If your window is closed, the ‘wind’ cannot get in whether it ‘must’ or not.

To open your window several preconditions are necessary: first, you have to see where it is and second, you have to make it open.


γνῶθι σεαυτόν (nosce te ipsum)

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#23 2012-02-28 00:53:25

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Re: You cannot go to it

So, plenty to do, anyway…

Not just arsing around and wait for unexpected bliss


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#24 2012-02-28 01:04:20

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Re: You cannot go to it

natura wrote:

So, plenty to do, anyway…

Not just arsing around and wait for unexpected bliss

hey wait a second,

what do you have against arsing around?
even if you aren't an Australian, you are in Australia, that's all anyone ever does over there, arses around. Oh sure every now and again they send someone into a hole to dig out some more gold or uranium or whatever, then someone else has to send it to China, and a third person has to bank the massive cheque that arrives on a super-freighter the next month, everyone else just arses around.

anyway, 'plenty to do' eh?

what is this 'plenty to do' business and how can it not just cause us to further get in our own way?

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#25 2012-02-28 01:06:28

RJ
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Re: You cannot go to it

snguyen wrote:

RJ wrote:

snguyen wrote:


How about this good brother,

"you must make all efforts and struggles" to die to everything you know for "you can't go to it" carrying any single thing. Leave your windows open unconsciously and MAYBE it comes to you.

In the meantime you live happily ))))

yes
Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut!

whilst you are making all those efforts and struggles to die to everything you know so you aren't carrying one single thing...

aren't you really just trying to go to it? (however it might look like a retreating action)

you could in fact say that all of that is the exact opposite of

'choiceless awareness'

for example

seem to have picked that phrase up somwhere, can't put my finger on it right now,
does it sound familiar?

You got it. You got it. Now you can teach me some. It is so easy. And we got to go out and play. No time for boring stuff all life long. smile

it sounds good Snu but, sad to say, I don't got nuffink to teach you mate
we're in it together, is all.

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