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#26 2012-07-23 19:31:38

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Re: Meaning

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

hermann wrote:

Ask the cat.

All I get back is this wide-eyed stare.

My cats eyes seem to say: ok, we are here now

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#27 2012-07-23 19:35:52

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Re: Meaning

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beans wrote:

I guess that depends on what you mean by meaning.

Thanks for the response, Beans.

Yeah, I guess I wasn't very clear about what flavor of "meaning" I was using.

Meaning in the sense of purpose, worth, value, gravitas. Looked at by Person A, this painting over here has colors, shapes, texture, etc., but little to no meaning; it doesn't matter, has no life-changing weight. Looked at by Person B, the painting has deep meaning; it changes his way of looking at the world, it has weight, it matters.

Here's what comes to mind, Pablo. At one time, a few of CS Lewis's writings were very meaningful to me because I didn't fully understand for myself the topics, such as "The Problem of Pain." I happened upon  that book recently and realized that I have known for some time that pain isn't actually a problem (as in a mystery to be solved - ie why does god allow pain?). So the book no longer has any meaning for me.

So obviously, the things we hold as having meaning change and are relevant only to the person as it is at a given time. On the other hand, the core of K's teaching, choiceless awareness etc, is probably meaningful to different degrees to forum members..

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#28 2012-07-23 19:47:21

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When my mind is still caught in the search for meaning, its state and quality are apparently caught in meaninglessness. From meaninglessness it tries to create meaning which is the child of meaninglessness and the vicious circle goes on.

So you're saying that meaning, like any other relative attribute (size, importance, virtue, etc.), creates its own opposite, and gives birth to a head-chasing-tail cycle? You're talking about going beyond relative traits, comparison, etc.

When everything in that stream of consciousness, the human consciousness, is realized to have no relationship at all with that which is eternal, it ceases.

Do you believe there is something eternal? If so, why wouldn't our consciousness be in relationship with it?

In complete destruction of the known may be I find out.

Isn't "complete destruction of the known" a state that can only be reached by physical (brain) death? The brain can never completely turn off to all that it (thinks it) is, right?

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#29 2012-07-23 19:47:23

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Meaning only is meaningful in relationship, isn't it? It really doesn't stand alone in some kind of inherent meaning

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#30 2012-07-23 19:49:00

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Re: Meaning

joe wrote:

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

If earth were human-less, would "meaning" ... have no meaning?

well, earth isn't human-less so we got what we got...

Not a fan of thought experiments?

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#31 2012-07-23 19:56:16

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LMP wrote:

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

hermann wrote:

Ask the cat.

All I get back is this wide-eyed stare.

My cats eyes seem to say: ok, we are here now.

A few days ago I stopped my car at a neighbor's backyard, got out, and played fetch with this very sweet Golden Retriever I visit from time to time. After the usual (and very fun) throw, fetch, yank, throw, fetch, yank ... I knelt next to him (her?) and petted him very gently. His big beautiful dog eyes stared up at me, clear, open, no fear, and there was a moment of pure connection. A sacred moment.

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#32 2012-07-23 19:58:59

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beans wrote:

So obviously, the things we hold as having meaning change and are relevant only to the person as it is at a given time.

Yes. And I guess what I'm asking is if there are quasi "absolute" meanings; things that have meaning, period, regardless of the person/entity doing the questioning.

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#33 2012-07-23 20:12:34

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Re: Meaning

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

joe wrote:

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

If earth were human-less, would "meaning" ... have no meaning?

well, earth isn't human-less so we got what we got...

Not a fan of thought experiments?

I am a tough sell for speculation, yeah...I wasn't trying to knock what you were asking or anything, it was just the response that came out.

While you are asking though, I will usher another speculative question.  What do you see to be gained by wondering about 'what is not' when 'what is' has plenty to see.  If you want to talk about meaning I am all for it but searching for meaning might not be the best approach...;-)

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#34 2012-07-23 20:26:18

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This is perhaps a bit closer to what I'm trying to get at:

Is there anything that truly matters? A fundamental, incontrovertible reason to do this rather than that? Or is "what is" (the totality) utterly attribute-less, value-less, beyond any rightness/wrongness?

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#35 2012-07-23 20:36:17

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I am a tough sell for speculation, yeah...I wasn't trying to knock what you were asking or anything, it was just the response that came out.

No offence taken! Why the aversion to speculating, if I may ask? Do you think it serves to deepen the belief in the story at the expense of the real?

While you are asking though, I will usher another speculative question.  What do you see to be gained by wondering about 'what is not' when 'what is' has plenty to see.

"What is" is generally not so wonder-inspiring for me, because: it IS, and I know it. My sense of wonder tends to come from contemplating "what might be" which, by definition, I do not know.

So I guess you could say I'm drawn to what I don't know, don't fathom, can't fathom.

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#36 2012-07-23 20:41:24

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ah...well, finding the extraordinary in the ordinary is pretty cool too.

Yes, I do find that speculation is typically a product of my restless mind more than anything else, and as such it loses its fancifulness upon seeing that.  If I want to speculate at all I usually do it by looking longer at what is right before me---the smell of the lilac, the depth of the rose, the intricacy of the hummingbirds flight.

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#37 2012-07-23 20:43:29

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Re: Meaning

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

This is perhaps a bit closer to what I'm trying to get at:

Is there anything that truly matters? A fundamental, incontrovertible reason to do this rather than that? Or is "what is" (the totality) utterly attribute-less, value-less, beyond any rightness/wrongness?

but see, this is an answer you can ascertain in your daily living, isn't it so?  Hit your thumb with a hammer and you will know that goes on the not to do list.  Listen when you are impatient and the answer will be right before you.

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#38 2012-07-23 20:44:06

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Sweet. Do you ever feel it limits the fullness of your experience as a human being (with our crazily wonderfully imaginative brain)?

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#39 2012-07-23 20:50:57

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Sweet. Do you ever feel it limits the fullness of your experience as a human being (with our crazily wonderfully imaginative brain)?

Do I feel that not following speculations wanderings limits my experience, is that your question?  Check it out pablo, if I do (feel that) I have missed the fact that I am following a speculation once again.  Do you see that?

I use imagination constantly in my business, it is a necessity.  But speculation and imagination are not really the same distinction, at least in the meaning I am giving them right now.

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#40 2012-07-23 21:17:58

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joe wrote:

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

Sweet. Do you ever feel it limits the fullness of your experience as a human being (with our crazily wonderfully imaginative brain)?

Do I feel that not following speculations wanderings limits my experience, is that your question?  Check it out pablo, if I do (feel that) I have missed the fact that I am following a speculation once again.  Do you see that?

No.

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#41 2012-07-23 21:42:46

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Re: Meaning

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

joe wrote:

Pablo Sitauskis wrote:

Sweet. Do you ever feel it limits the fullness of your experience as a human being (with our crazily wonderfully imaginative brain)?

Do I feel that not following speculations wanderings limits my experience, is that your question?  Check it out pablo, if I do (feel that) I have missed the fact that I am following a speculation once again.  Do you see that?

No.

Ok...what I am trying to say is that in order to feel that, I must have an imagined identity to feel it.  Follow this, I would have to first know 'who I thought I was' and then also know 'who I thought I would be' without the limit you are pointing to.  Trouble is, that type of identity is transparent and melts upon first glance.  I get lost but not this way.

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#42 2012-07-23 21:57:39

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Okay, got it.

It still sounds to me like you're choosing to "turn off" a quite wondrous ability of the human brain.

I want it all! :-)

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#43 2012-07-23 22:02:10

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If, when taking a walk we come upon an apple tree and you are hungry and I am not, should we both eat the apples?  What of the butterfly flitting about?  Shall noone see its dance?

It is a speculative question, I know.

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#44 2012-07-23 22:09:27

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Fair enough. :-)

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#45 2012-07-23 22:48:31

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I use imagination in a practical way every day pablo.  I am only talking about recognizing when imagination forms an identity that attributes meaning endlessly.

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#46 2012-07-23 23:20:49

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I understand the danger in this. It's one thing to enjoy stories (of all ilk), another to believe (in) them. Very slippery slope ...

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#47 2012-07-23 23:22:27

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yes...thanks for the walk.

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#48 2012-07-23 23:24:42

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Yo pablo, it seems to be that there is a place that can be the real or the imagined and it makes not one whit of difference.

I like to think of it as the most elegant focus possible.

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#49 2012-07-24 00:15:32

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Pray tell. I want to know of this place.

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#50 2012-07-24 01:26:44

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Oh heavens, PS, it's the place you will find yourself in when you crawl out of these words you are reading and look around you.

Imagined or not, it is where you find yourself, isn't it? 

What you make of that finding is solely up to you.

Is that too practical? I don't think so...

[and this puts us on the next page]

[and, according to the following site, I am in the dark right now. How about you?]

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